Sibling

Sharing care for your ageing father with your sister

Your father needs more help at home. You live closest and have been doing almost everything for a year. Your sister helps when asked, but only when asked.

What you want out of itShe commits to specific, regular responsibilities every week.

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Priya · Your older sister

Overwhelmed, avoids commitment

"Just tell me when you need me"; agrees vaguely; cites her schedule.

Difficulty 2 — Pushes back hardVoice: Jessica

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Priya · Your older sister

Scorekeeping and resentful

Lists what she has done; says you like being the martyr; turns it into an old argument.

Difficulty 3 — Escalates and won't budgeVoice: Laura

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