Spouse or partner

Raising your partner's spending

Your partner has been making large purchases from the joint account without discussing them, and you are behind on savings you both agreed to.

What you want out of itYou agree to a monthly budget review together.

Choose your challenge

Who you'll be talking to

Alex · Your partner

Embarrassed, shuts down

Goes quiet; one-word answers; "fine, I'll just never buy anything".

Difficulty 2 — Pushes back hardVoice: Eric

Alex · Your partner

Sarcastic and stonewalling

Mocking agreement; brings up your own purchases; refuses to name a time to talk.

Difficulty 3 — Escalates and won't budgeVoice: Alice